To The best version of you

We all have been passed through many ups and downs, somewhere in our life. The hard times when we were trying to rise out of it and actually we made it possible with rigorous efforts and actions, and have you ever fallen into the same condition after that ??

 

If no then you might have learned from it else you need to analyze the causes which have resulted in the former situation.

 

On your way to advancement, just pursue  these   in your daily routines to reach the better you

 

Diary writing: It is the best thing that you can do to stimulate the process of meeting the best in you, all you have to do is to write down all your heart out on it and then just go throughout to your work in your diary and analyze your moves and its outcomes, so you can fix it up for upcoming future and never repeat the same mistakes.

 

Believe me after sharing your all-day experience with your diary, you would feel so light and peaceful.

 

Reading: To read something good is tantamount to feed your brain a nutritious diet everyday and fixing up the deadlocks that occur in your mind and you have surely read this somewhere that " a book is the best friend to us", so choose a good book and hold on to it and apply the theories it consists in it to your life and you are a step ahead in the encounter with the better you.

 

You can select any book of your choice, it might be  "The secrets ", "power of your subconscious mind " or any other good book of your choice, so just go through it and you would find solutions to your queries about life.

 

Goal: Fix a goal in your life, I have read it in a book that a person with no goal is like wandering on a road without destination, though you are walking on a road you do not have an idea about where would you reach in future, and if you set a goal in your life, then even unaware of the path you would find your way to the destination and with every step toward your goal, you would feel enthusiastic and energetic and develop a positive attitude toward life.

 

Meditation: It leads you to mental peace, all you have to do is just sit and close your eyes and imagine a box in your mind, and let your mind blow by the reckless thoughts and just lock down all of them into that box and just move ahead with the regular meditation practice.

 

Walk: Either a morning walk or an evening one but it must be included to your daily routine, this is the time when you feel the nature, that pampering breeze, the infinite color blue, singing birds and all the love from nature sending to us, just feel it and your heart will surely embrace all of it.

 

So after all these, one should work on his/her experience, evaluate every point, every single mistake you have made in past and learn a lesson from it and never forget to apply it in your life and here I want to clarify, do not get stuck to your past just use it for analyzing your missteps and just move towards a better version of you and keep excavating the thoughts that lead to the best in you.

 

Thanks for reading.

 

 

Motherhood :journey of a mother (part 2)

As your baby stepped into your life,with his/her twinkling eyes and  smiling lips you merely remembered the phase you have gone through earlier,His/Her cries sound  most melodious at that moment,I think the best moment in life of every woman.
You started to put efforts to connect with your little one and the first step to this was feeding your baby and for the first time you felt  emotionally and physically connected to him/her after coming out of your womb.
Here started a new struggle ,conciliation between the sleep of baby and mother and of course everything went according to the comfort of your little one,you spent not only  sleepless nights but also sleepy days,your gaining weight ,every organ of your body felt like hanging inside your stomach and of course how could you forget the lactation which made you feel so heavy that you even couldn't sleep properly and after all these here you thrown yourself to deal with undiscovered challenges,which were to carry all the task of your little one.
Tell me ,How you felt when you first time gave your baby a bath after massage?
Those tender limbs of your little one felt so fragile at that time and in your mind the phrase was striking continuously was,"Handle with care",wasn't it?
How tough the former task was though you learned it and after some time you gained efficiency in it and became the best mother to your child despite your healing stitches which resisted you to sit properly and so painful they were until  healed completely and how could you forget that feeling when those stitches got wet with the urine passed by your little one.
The stinky diapers ,wet bed sheets and you too sometime felt his/her urine on you actually I should use many instead of some but this  fragrance was better  than of any perfume you are going wear in your lifetime.
I can compare all the new mothers to our mother earth,she is just like her,rotating at her own place to deal with her own constraints ,after all these challenges her life is revolving around her child and she forget herself to get adjusted in  this scenario.
After all these challenges she felt like an awardee when her child uttered the  first word, or started crawling or  walking ,her trophies were those little hands who held her while trying to stand on his/her little feet,her medals were the two little arms ,embraced her in between them.
She captured and locked , the very first crawling,first walk and first word he/she spoke in her heart forever.

Whether you were a good cook or not but you tried to cook the best dish with all your heart ,for your child though made her/him eating that dish was another super constraint,and in this roller coaster ride ,you faced another challenge when unfortunately your child fell sick and you were never prepare for this at first but you also dealt with it amazingly and the vaccinations ,in every vaccination you cried more than your baby did,you learned to deal with all above challenges except one especially this is a big challenge for me till now that how to make your baby eat everything,like dal ,roti ,sabji ,chawal to get him/her  the full nutrition value?
Now when your child complete first year ,the challenges began to lessen down but here came another one,The teeth started growing and those two little teeth were like pomegranate seeds in his/her mouth which made him/her more cute but this time your child felt fever and chills followed with continuous bowls .
As year passed, the challenges changed their way of representation to us,Now your little one started to throw new challenges at you every day and you still thinking the new scene he/she going to create and your journey continues...
Thanks for reading

Best wishes for all mum for their lovely journey.
This one is dedicated to my little angel Minku ,Love you darling.