आज़ादी या भीख 

कुछ दिनों पहले सोशल मीडिया पर सुनने में आया कि 1947 में हमें आज़ादी नहीं भीख मिली थी और असली आज़ादी हमें 2014 में मिली, हो सकता है कुछ लोग इस बात से सहमत भी हो पर ये जो आप को देश की आज़ादी का अपमान करने का अधिकार मिला है न ये भी उसी भीख का परिणाम है ।

देश की आज़ादी का अपमान करने का साहस या फिर कहे दुस्साहस करने का हम सोच भी कैसे सकते हैं ?

1857  की क्रांति से 1947 तक या कहे उसके बाद भी जाने कितने स्वतंत्रता सेनानियों की शहादत के बदले देश को आज़ादी मिली है और देश को चाहिए कि स्वतंत्रता संग्राम के हर सेनानी का सम्मान किया जाये,उनके शहादत दिवस को और उनकी शहादतों को आवश्यक पाठ्यक्रम के रूप में पढ़ाया जाये ,जिससे युवाओं को और देश की भावी पीढ़ी को देश कि आज़ादी का और आज़ादी के लिए दिए गए बलिदानोंका महत्व समझ में आये और वो समझ सके कि हमारी आज़ादी कोई भीख नहीं बल्कि देश के वीरों के बलिदान से ,उनके लहू से तिलक लगा कर आयी है और आज हम उन सभी का अपमान कर रहे हैं ।

देश धर्म में तो बंट ही गया है अब स्वतंत्रता सेनानियों का भी बंटवारा होने लगा है ।

हर राजनीतिक दल ने अपने अपने हिसाब से हमारे आज़ादी के नायकों को बाँट रखा है और साबित करने में तुले है कि उन्हीं की  वजह से आज़ादी आयी है ,पर आज़ादी सिर्फ मुट्ठी भर लोगो से नहीं आयी ,आज़ादी में देश के हर कोने से लोगो का योगदान और बलिदान दोनों ही अतुलनीय है ।

23 मार्च को जब हम भगत सिंह को याद करते हैं तब हम जतींद्र नाथ का बलिदान दिवस क्यों नहीं मानते जिन्होंने जेल में भूख हड़ताल से अपनी जान दे दी थी , हम क्यों सूर्यसेन को याद नहीं करते ,क्यों हम कभी सचिन सान्याल ,रास बिहारी बोस इन सबको याद नहीं करते और भी जाने कितने ही ऐसे नाम है जिन्हें देश की जनता जानती ही नहीं है ,और जानती है तो बस गाँधी ,नेहरू ,सुभाष चंद्र बोस और सावरकर और इन्हें अपने हिसाब से बाँट कर आज़ादी की अभिव्यक्ति का लुत्फ़ उठाते है ।

हम कितनी महिला स्वतंत्रता सेनानियों को जानते है ?

सिर्फ सरोजिनी नायडू या एनी बेसेंट पर बहुत सी औरतों ने आज़ादी की इस लड़ाई में भाग लिया था जैसे प्रीती लता वादेदार ,कल्पना दत्ता और भी बहुत सारे नाम हैं जो आजतक किताबों में भी गुमनाम हैं  ।

देश कैसे भूल सकता है जलियांवाला बाग को और उधम सिंह को, कैसे भूल सकते हैं की 17  नवंबर 1928  को लाला लाजपत राय साइमन कमीशन के विरोध में हुए लाठी चार्ज में शहीद हुए  ?

पर देश की तस्वीर अब बदलने लगी है क्योंकि देश के इतिहास के साथ छेड़छाड़ ही हो रही है ,कहीं नाम बदले जा रहे हैं तो कहीं आज़ादी के साक्ष्यों को मनोरंजक पार्क के रूप में तब्दील किया जा रहा है।

देश के इतिहास को बदलने से हमारी आने वाली पीढ़ी अपने देश का इतिहास कैसे जान पायेगी और कैसे वो जलियांवाला के दर्द को महसूस कर पायेगी ?

इतिहास को बदल कर आप इतिहास बदल नहीं सकते पर हाँ आप लोगो कि भावनाओं को आहत ज़रूर कर रहे हैं और देश की आज़ादी का अपमान भी ,अगर देश को गौरवशाली इतिहास देना है तो नया इतिहास रचिये न कि देश के अतीत से छेड़छाड़ कीजिये और सबसे अहम बात देश की आज़ादी और आज़ादी दिलाने वालो का सम्मान कीजिये ।

Happy Navaratri

Many many congratulations to all as the Navratri began today, many shades are scattered in the atmosphere that you can find them within your family, friends, or surroundings.

Everything started to turn very auspicious and we started fasting to ward off the evils inside us and this is really very good practice.

So who is Goddess Durga and why do we celebrate Navratri??

No, no, no please don't get bothered because I'm not revising it for you again because we people are already aware of it, but yeah I would like to take you on the journey of our religious beliefs, how do they get started?

we people merely know that in the Vedic period there were only those God exist who derived the natural forces like "Surya"- the God of Sun, Varuna, Usha, and so on..so who is God, God is a power, our belief, our savior from evils or mishappenings and as the time moved on God took many shapes and stories associated to them ..

so I just want to let you know that Goddess Durga is power resides inside every woman, the first thing I would like to say is that please respect the woman because you haven't seen the goddess but you are living with many women sharing your life with them, from your mother to your daughter all are the different shades of goddess Durga and the women at your workplace or any stranger all are carrying a goddess Durga in it.

we Indians always started posting things like feticide, rapes or dowery killing existed as a curse in our country so why are we celebrating Navratri so to all please one thing is to note down here is in many of the above cases excluding rapes, there is a woman who induces all these events to occur only name of relation would get changed so until a woman started to take stand for other woman or would not try to understand nothing will going to change, its women who can change the society and carve a new society for upcoming generations by supporting each other.

here carving a new society of our new generations doesn't mean to carve a vulgar one as you can see it on social media these days and episode named sukhprapti, actually, I fell short on words to write about it, they are like talking about sex, alcohol and double meaning things on the name of feminism, is this we going to pass our society through social media ?is feminism all about alcohol drugs and sex ? who told you this shit?

If a boy would talk about these things he portrayed a bad image of him in our mind but when a girl talks about it we hide it or wrap it beneath the label of feminism, excuse me, do you think it's feminism?

No, it's not, it's something that must get the same reaction whether it be for a boy or a girl so please stop changing the definition of feminism.

feminism is goddess Durga who is a symbol of love to her husband and to her kids when she drapes a red saree, she brings peace to you, she is a daughter and a wife who sacrificed her life for her husband's respect and she is shakti when its come to her dignity, she is the creator if you are good to her but when it's about her dignity she can destroy the whole world, she is the shakti, she complemented the man and she is the kali and she is all about true feminism .

happy navratri to all ,keep maa durga alive in your soul .

online classes, what do you say ?

Classes, classes, and online classes, right?

As we all know, we all are going through a really very tough time, but still, schools are providing us their services through online mediums and they keep putting in their efforts to educate our kids and we all owe a big thanks to them.

Being the mother of a student sometimes I have some queries, some suggestions not only for a particular group but for all whether it be the teachers or the parents of the students and sometimes maybe the students but I couldn't get the right medium to express what is going on in my mind so I just found that, yes I can do it through blogging. 

Many things I observe during the online class session of my kid, so I want to share some of them,

-Not all children are identical, some are very sharp, some are average and some are below average, they all are different but believe me as a mother I always try to give my all to my kid and our teachers do so but during the online class dear parents please maintain the decorum of the class, like if your kid knows everything, then please wait for your turn rather than make your kid shout the answer, seriously this is not the way and we are here to get our kid educated not to shop for the fishes and please let the teachers do their job.

-Online class doesn't mean to tell your kid everything they don't even know, dear parents please let them learn by themselves, let them accept the things that they don't know, and believe me this is not shameful that if your kid doesn't know something or weak at some point, let them handle their small success and little failures believe me for that no one going to judge them but yes this habit of pretending to know everything lead them to lies and dishonesty.

If you make them learn things on their own, they would feel bad if they would not be able to give the right answers and next time they would put more effort to do their best, by doing this your child would grow along with the virtue of truth, honesty and as well as hard work.

Dear teacher please never support or applause those kids who are doing their best with the help of their parents because this would be going to have a negative impact on the little minds who are doing it on their own, cause it takes a lot of hard work to do so, let them grow on their own, and dear parents try to make your kids so efficient so they could deliver their best before the teachers and their fellow students rather than letting them know everything during the class, better to try this after the class.

One thing I desperately want that there should be a guideline for the parents and the students on how to behave during online class, interruption of parents during the online class is so unbearable, please don't make any interruption because others are waiting for their turn too, you can satisfy your queries after the class or when the teacher asks you to do so.

dear teachers, as a mother of a student I want to let you know that in your class there are many students, some are very intelligent and expressive too, some are those who know everything but can't respond too fast and some are average but all are special but I noticed different behavior of students like some possesses dominating attributes affecting their fellow students and some are too slow to catch their speed and some are very effective that they know how to behave in class, so please let every student know their limitations during the online class so they all could learn to develop the behavior that would be going to lead them to be a better person because education is not only about studies but as well as personality development too.

and to the schools, please provide a fine guideline on how to behave during online classes.

Thank you all the lovely teachers for your endless efforts.